Clay had to have surgery to remove his appendix last Friday. But that was on his second E.R. visit. It all started Thursday afternoon. He came home from work with some stomach discomfort and it just kept escalating throughout the evening. It stated as a sharp fiery pain, like something was trying to claw its way out from inside him right above his navel. He was doubled over in pain, and eventually vomited because the pain was so intense. When he asked me to take him to the E.R. I knew it must be bad, let's face it men are stubborn and they never want to go to the doctor.
So, we went to the E.R. around 9ish Thurs. night, they drew some blood and took some x-rays but said they couldn't find anything and told us to follow-up with our family doctor the next day. So they discharged us around midnight (I think that was the fastest E.R. visit I've ever heard of).
We followed-up with our family doctor the next day around 1:45ish and by this time the pain had changed to a sharp stabbing pain and moved to Clay's lower right side. Our told us to go back to the E.R. right away because he was pretty sure Clay had appendicitis. He said he could call an ambulance for us or we could drive there, but he said if we drove we had to go straight there. So we opted to drive, no sense in having another medical bill to pay for.
So we got to the E.R. a little before 3 and they drew more blood, took a urine sample, and did a C.T. scan and came to the conclusion around 8:30ish that it was appendicitis and that they were going to do an appendectomy. One of the nurses teased Clay and said, "So, you didn't have anything better to do on a Friday night, huh?"
He went into surgery an hour later and I didn't get to see him again until 11:30. He was so loopy, and confused. They found out he was allergic to morphine, when they gave him some he broke out with huge hives so they had to give him Benadryl and then some Demerol.
We finally got up to the room he'd be staying in and he wanted me to stay with him, so I did. I got to sleep in this hideously uncomfortable recliner, I didn't even get one of those, Transformer beds, as Tony calls them, no I got a miserable recliner that was hard as a rock and was supposed to be shaped to conform to a person's body, but not for someone who is short. So where there was an indentation or a protrusion it was exactly opposite of what I needed. I got maybe three hours of interrupted sleep because of how often the nurses had to come in and check his vitals and all that good stuff. I think I deserve a Best Wife of the Year award or something. But I did it all for my baby, and I'd do it again if I had to. I am just so glad he is better.
My parents and Sarah and Tony are wonderful for taking care of Izzy during all of this. And Lori was able to, when she wasn't fretting about her son that is, get a lot of her homework and such done, while Izzy was gone.
Clay told me to go home and sleep in my own bed Sat. night and I was so grateful for it, I felt guilty leaving him, but I needed it, I looked terrible and I felt like a zombie. I went to my parents house for dinner then went home and literally collapsed on the bed until the next morning. I still felt zombie-ish but I had to push that to the side. I went back to the hospital Sun. morning around 11 and Clay was finally discharged and we left at 4:44. Bishop came and visited with us for a little bit to see how we were doing, and my parents brought Izzy home as soon as I had Clay all settled in.
Izzy has been really good about daddy not being able to play to much, or lift things, or run, etc. She gets frustrated sometimes, but then I just turn it around on her and say, "You can be daddy's helper." or "Make sure daddy doesn't try to do this or that and if he does tell him 'daddy you can't do that remember' and if he needs mommy and I'm not there come get me." The list is endless, I've had to get creative.
Below is a picture of Clay's "war wound" His poor tummy is bloated and sore (of course) and he has 7 staples, he also has some numbness in certain spots. He follows-up with the surgeon this Thurs. He is dying of boredom and is frustrated that he can't do certain things. My mom is awesome because she is going to be taking Izzy out on a grandma date sometime this week, just to get her out and away to have fun, since mommy needs to take care of daddy.
Other than all our medical drama and such, we are doing alright. :)